Parenting the Second Time Around: Grandparents as Caregivers
By Dee Ann Newell, M.A., Program Director of "Families Matter"
at Centers for Youth & Families; Raayma Thomas, Graduate student, UALR,
Graduate School of Social Work; Jan Judy Chairman Emeritus, Arkansas Voices
for the Children Left Behind
Many adults in their fifties or sixties eagerly anticipate becoming grandparents.
In this role, we plan to help with our grandchildren, be indulgent and have
little of the responsibility and all of the fun of being a parent.
Most of us can speak sweetly of our own grandparents, recalling their family
stories, special meals, tender touches and whispers of love. However the role
of grandparents has, for many, changed dramatically in the past ten years.
There are more than six million children being raised in households headed
by grandparents. Such grandparent-headed households are found in every economic
and ethnic group and represent a 30 percent increase from 1990 to 2000. These
grandparents face obvious difficulties, because they are aging and had no plans
to be parents a second time around.
ACH offers tips to keep your little goblins safe this Halloween
Halloween can be one of the most magical nights of the year for children. The
costumes and the candy cause excitement and anticipation, but Halloween can
be dangerous. Arkansas Children’s Hospital urges parents to take precautions.
ACH Trauma Coordinator Donna Parnell-Beasley states that on Halloween night
costume, candy and physical safety is extremely important.
“Parents should watch their children at all times on Halloween night
because many factors come into play,” Beasley said.
Parents should pick costumes carefully. According to Beasley, costumes should
be brightly colored and reflective. Costumes need to be made of flame-retardant
material and should be short enough that children do not trip. Masks can also
cause problems. They should fit securely and allow children to see. ACH encourages
the use of nontoxic face paint as an alternative to masks.
By Shelby Brewer, Communications Specialist, University of Arkansas for
Medical Sciences
Since the 1960s, prenatal ultrasounds have been used by millions of women as
a safe diagnostic tool for checking on the health of their growing babies. But
in recent years, many expectant parents are using ultrasounds for a very different
purpose: early baby portraits.
Across the country, commercial companies with charming names such as "Fetal
Fotos" and "Oh Baby" offer parents amazingly clear snapshots
of their babies using the latest ultrasound technology to produce high-resolution,
three-dimensional and four-dimensional (moving) images. Parents say the experience
allows them to bond with their babies, and many expectant mothers visit the
businesses several times to sneak a peek at their unborn child.
The lure of this growing industry is the sharp images of facial features such
as chubby cheeks and button noses that the standard two-dimensional ultrasounds
don't show.
Question: My 2-year-old is a picky eater. He eats nothing
but macaroni and cheese and I’m afraid he’s not getting enough to
eat. What can I do to make sure he eats well?
Answer: The complaint of picky eating is one of the most common
developmental questions pediatricians get during early childhood. A recent study
has shown that more than 40 percent of 2-year-olds are classified by their parents
as being picky eaters. By this, parents mean their child will eat only one or
two foods – or refuse foods on different occasions. The same study shows
there is no difference between picky eaters as to their gender, family financial
status or racial background.
Most parents of picky eaters are concerned their child will develop nutritional
deficiencies; however picky eaters are generally healthy children of normal
height and weight. When compared to children who eat balanced meals, the picky
eater usually consumes an adequate diet with the recommended amount of nutrients
and therefore there is little to worry about as far as nutrition goes. The real
concern should be establishing healthy eating patterns or habits at a young
age, since these patterns will continue into adulthood.
Arkansas Children’s Hospital’s Pediatricians Advise
Children to Drop the Pop
Many children and teenagers see that 2 liter plastic bottle of cola in the
fridge as a sugary-sweet, liquid temptation. It’s no secret that our children
are drinking too much soda, but how is it really affecting their health? Pediatricians
at Arkansas Children’s Hospital (ACH) caution that an unhealthy amount
of soft drinks can lead to an unhealthy child or teen.
A common place for parents to discover their child has been drinking too much
pop is in the dentist’s office. Sodas contain a lot of sugar, acid and
carbonation. When these three mix in your mouth, they make your saliva acidic
and that accumulates on your teeth. The acid then eats away at your teeth and
allows bacteria in, which leads to cavities.
“Children and adults should diminish the intake of sodas and increase
the intake of water and natural juices,” says James Koonce, DDS, MSD,
director of Dental Services at ACH. “Sodas often take the place of fruit
juices and water in children's diets and that’s unhealthy for anyone.”
Supporting School Success
October 12-26, 2004 (6-8 p.m.) OR October 13-27, 2004 (10-12 p.m.)
A parenting curriculum, presented by Dee Austin, for parents of children in
grades K-3. Parents will learn and practice skills for supporting their child's
success. They will also learn how to partner with their child's school to address
two of the critical factors - academic failure and early antisocial behavior
- that put children at risk for later problems. Kids' Kamp is a child's curriculum
that mirrors each sessions focus area. School age children join their parents
during the last half hour of each session for hands-on practice. (NOTE: Cannot
enroll after first session).
Parenting Through a Divorce
October 21, 2004 (6-8 p.m.)
Sound, sensible advice to parents on how to help their children handle the divorce
of their parents. Learn how to tell your children the marriage is over, prepare
them for changes, communicate positively with your children and your ex-spouse,
and develop a parenting plan that will minimize the trauma to your child. Taught
by Ben Johnson.
Parent-School Involvement
October 28, 2004 (6-8 p.m.)
Research has proven that the single most important factor in a child's success
at school is parental involvement. This class will help parents learn their
role in a child's education. Learn what the parents' responsibilities are in
getting a good education for their children. Taught by NWA Child Care Resource
& Referral).
Parents on Board
November 2-16, 2004 (6-8 p.m.) OR
November 3-17, 2004 (10am - 12pm)
A parenting curriculum for building academic success through parental involvement
for parents of 4-14 year olds. The purpose of the program is to help parents
become constructively involved in their child's learning by providing them with
the information and skills necessary to help their children succeed in school
and beyond. Presented by Dee Austin.
Resolving Conflicts Peacefully (Mediation)
November 4, 2004 (6-8 p.m.)
Family conflict affects almost 100% of family members throughout our society.
Often individuals need help in resolving family conflict. Mediation and conflict
negotiation skills can benefit individuals and family when family disputes arise.
This class, taught by Dr. Paul Batson, will address the benefits of these resolution
techniques.
Going to School
November 11, 2004 (6-8 p.m.)
A series designed to help parents and teachers learn ways they can help prepare
children for going to school. Learn the skills and habits your child needs to
be successful in getting a good education (Part 3 of a 3 part series taught
by Michelle Wynn - NWA Child Care Resource & Referral)
Parenting Through a Divorce
November 18, 2004 (6-8 p.m.)
Sound, sensible advice to parents on how to help their children handle the divorce
of their parents. Learn how to tell your children the marriage is over, prepare
them for changes, communicate positively with your children and your ex-spouse,
and develop a parenting plan that will minimize the trauma to your child. Taught
by Ben Johnson.
All Little Rock classes are held at Arkansas Children’s Hospital.Call
(501) 364-6911 to register. All classes are FREE of charge.
Emergency Department - 501-364-1185
The Emergency Department is a fully staffed and equipped facility available
24 hours a day for treatment of all pediatric emergencies including trauma.
Community Outreach - 501-364-KIDS (5437)
ACH has developed several statewide community outreach programs with a focus
on wellness and prevention. A variety of materials are available.
Volunteer Services - 501-364-1825
There are a variety of volunteer opportunities available throughout the hospital.
Arkansas Children's Hospital Foundation - 501-364-1476
ACH accepts financial contributions to help make miracles happen. Call for information
on donating to Arkansas Children's Hospital.
Cardiology Clinic - 501-364-4546
The Pediatric Cardiology Clinics provides opportunities for consultation and
diagnosis of children with possible heart conditions.
Hematology/Oncology Clinic - 501-364-4331
The Hematology/Oncology Clinic provides diagnosis, evaluation and treatment
of childhood problems related to blood and/or tumors.
Adolescent Medicine Clinic/Teen Wellness Center - 501-364-8336
The Adolescent Medicine Clinic and Teen Wellness Center provides a wide range
of care for adolescents.
General Pediatric Clinic - 501-364-1202
The General Pediatric Clinic provides diagnosis, treatment and/or follow-up
of children with general health problems.